know me and love me

As the old saying goes," love is blind", one makes no effort to give what he has to the one he loves by what he thinks. Nevertheles, this sort of giving is blind due to the ignorance between them. Imagination in ones' mind cannot turn to true love and favour, it is hard to surmise what others are or what others do after all. The woman in the story is just showing her affection in a self—imaginary way so as to hurt the one she loves. Knowing each other has been so substantial in a relationship. Why not tell him your favour and ask what he need ? Get it easy and love will be easy.